Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Eye Contact

I have just learned something that is incredibly amazing. When trying to have a heart-felt conversation with someone, it is important to look left eye to left eye. Research has suggested that this is the method to stay in the emotional part of the brain rather than in the logical side. Staying in the emotional part means that we are then dealing with feelings rather than seeing in the right eye and dealing with logic which creates the tendency to fight for who is right and who is wrong. Feelings are not right or wrong, they just are; and when we deal with and accept each others emotions, then we can come to a greater understanding and bonding.

Hey, I'm trying this the next time I get pulled over for speeding.

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